In conclusion...
What problems might people encounter in searching for lost relatives on the Net?
They must be prepared to be very patient waiting for replies - It was nearly six weeks before I had my first reply from the Jewish Gen website and many more weeks before I reached my final goal. You must be prepared to accept defeat and even rejection and know that you can cope with this emotionally. I have been very lucky. Having found my Uncle, I was able to reunite him with my half sister, Laura, who has been able to fill in some gaps for him. It was as a direct result of finding Uncle Aleksey that I was compelled to find Laura - it inspired me to look for her as she was the direct link to my father.
Has anyone else contacted you asking for your help?
I have several friends who saw the programme who wish to find out more about their family. One colleague at work is tracing his family tree on the Net. It is not an easy decision to make as it can affect the lives of many people and cause much heartbreak. But if it works out it is truly wonderful.
How has the media reacted to your story?
I gave an interview on John Peel's 'Home Truths' which was very interesting. I have not really explored the media apart from this programme. Everyone who has heard the programme has said that I should write a book and I do hope to do this one day. The BBC in-house magazine "Ariel" published a lovely article just before the programme went out.
How has the Internet helped you to get to know your new-found family?
I am able to contact my family in the States by e-mail. This is much easier than talking on the phone as their command of the English language is not yet fluent. I can also send photographs and send e-cards! Laura and I have discovered Instant Messaging so we can chat online.
Do computers help in other aspects of your life? How?
I sometimes use the computer for online shopping. I use it to book tickets for concerts, flights etc. I did a great deal of research on education and my children use the computer for recreation and homework. I have signed up to 'Friends Reunited' and had a few surprises. I am also using it to write my book. I can store photographs on it although I do need to increase my hard drive.
Do you now feel "Well Connected"?
Positively fluorescent!!!!
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