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Spirituality and morality
All children have a capacity for forming moral judgements.
Carl Rogers believed that children and adults are able
to reach their full potential as people if the core
conditions of warmth, empathy and positive regard are
met. This perhaps suggests that children need their
spirituality and moral development nurtured by empathic
adults.
Spirituality, morality, religion and ethics are closely
linked. Most religious belief systems have concerns
about the sanctity of life, respect and care for the
family, community and others. This may be enshrined
in a moral code, or practices connected with food or
dress or festivals. Much of this practice will be positive
for a child, giving meaning to births, coming of age,
marriages or deaths in the family. Many people turn
to religious beliefs and rituals to help them through
times of stress or to celebrate a transition. Children
who belong to faith communities need to have such practices
continued when away from home. While the abuses of religion
and the strife caused by sectarianism cannot be denied,
a religious belief or affiliation can provide support
and/or inner resilience in times of difficulty.
Neglect of childrens' sense of truth, justice or mystery
may leave them expressing their terrors and pain in
ways which society may find unacceptable. Anger and
despair can be expressed outwards, as violence towards
others, or can be turned inwards onto themselves, which
can result in depression or self-harm. It is therefore
important to respect and nurture general spiritual qualities
in children and young people rather than to leave a
vacuum, which may have unwanted, sad and in some circumstances,
tragic consequences.
The spiritual dimension of children's development is
part of a holistic understanding of the needs and rights
of children, young people, families and communities.
References
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The Children's Society.
Crompton M. (1996) (ed) Children, Spirituality &
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Rogers C. R. (1961) On Becoming a Person, Boston, Houghton
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Webster S. (1998) Poem, Positive News, No15, Winter/Spring,
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Winnicott D. W. (1985) Home is Where We Start From,
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